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My most recent blog has cavorted within me and has birth to more thoughts on the topic of romance. More has yet to be expressed. It's clear...I am not going to live as a monk. Why?...because just like you the gravitational yearning and pull of sacred love (the divine cousin of romantic love) is too much to resist... That, and I look shitty in saffron.
Romance does exist; ideally not as an end in itself but as the window dressing for love. Because, quite frankly, I can't go cold turkey and stop loving romance movies or listening to love songs. They are the delicious breadcrumbs along the path of life to witness and experience the heady intoxication and proof that Source love does exist. I am never going to be able to wipe the smile off my face when I watch a couple newly in love as they lope down the aisle of the grocery store. Love just makes me so damn happy.
When you find someone that is a true spiritual partner, I do believe that you can do more together than you can apart. I do believe that by removing the romantic sand in the hourglass and replacing it with the sand of alacrity, gratitude and sacred, substantive love the two can be of great influence. But this type of relationship requires join responsibility to the Universe to make the world a better place. And if this can be done together with such devotion and commitment to ones self, one another, the community and the world...to be of such pure intent that the ripple you create inspires more purity within others then you can have your cake and eat it too. You can be "selfish" with your desire to hear the proclamation of loving devotion AND share it with the Universe together. Ohhh. that sounds yummy doesn't it?
It strikes me however, that with a perfect condition such as this you have to abort your personal agendas towards ego enrichment. And once you decide to leap off that ledge nothing else matters except loving everyone. And at that point it is hard to just love one person...and then to decide to love everyone and experience the joy of love that your partner feels for another through your own heart without ego/jealousy. Hum. It gets wacky and heady only when the ego says, "Hey, wait just a minute....the universe revolves around me!" Strap on your seatbelt for that ride.
However, if we go back to the idea of establishing the "control experiment" within the confines of your own Soul and taping into the frequency of love then it is a blissed-out, self-sustaining climate. It's a smooth ride without 911 to all the kings horses and all the kings men. It's safe, satisfying and delicious.
Nothing is right or wrong or more virtuous than the last. It is the ebb and flow of experience and of choice. It is about making the choice, minute by minute to sculpt who you truly are and make manifest your intention to leave the world a better place than when you arrived. And that can be done with or without another person. You decide. It's your choice.
But what is certain for those seeking meaningful partnerships is you have to become the person you want to attract. By tapping into a fully resonant source and embodying that vibration will bring you what you desire more quickly. By *being love* you remove the resistance on all levels until you feel as if you are in the warmth of pure sunshine no matter the apparent condition. This is yummy too. Once you truly feel that you don't need another to help generate these feelings; when you are so consumed with gratitude and love within then the Universe provides a match according to your specifications.
I guess we are looking for yummy x2. To feel it whole heartedly within our being and then have the mirror of your condition appear in a prospective partner...
For those already in a committed relationship where the romantic sand has been depleted, bust open the hourglass. A total romantic sandectomy is unnecessary. It is a sand augmentation that would be the perfect answer to this quandry. Take out all the grains of ego and replace them with gratitude and appreciation. Mine for the good qualities in each other without expecting anything in return. When you commit to yourself to set the example of love and appreciation the alacrity in newfound partnership returns with an easy smile on its face.
So my question to you:
What quality do you need to change or accept in yourself that you'd like to have reflected in a partner?
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